Alyssia Aguilar shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Good morning Alyssia, we’re so happy to have you here with us and we’d love to explore your story and how you think about life and legacy and so much more. So let’s start with a question we often ask: What are you chasing, and what would happen if you stopped?
I am chasing faith.
Throughout my life, I’ve learned that people will fail me, but God never has. I never imagined being a single mom would be part of my story, but here I am. Reality hits hard, when my ex-husband left just three days after our six-year wedding anniversary, while I was facing a cancer scare and had just been diagnosed with a chronic autoimmune disease faith was all I had.
I had 30 days to find a new home, move my daughters, manage freelance work, and somehow keep it all together. I did the only thing I knew to do: pray. I asked for peace, for strength, and for a way forward.
Now in 2025, we’re still standing. Thriving, even. My daughters and I have built a bond grounded in faith. I still juggle a lot. What single parent doesn’t? But chasing after God fuels me. It fills me with purpose and helps me pour into my kids, my clients, and my work through The Lofty Mom.
I fear that if I stop chasing faith, my joy, my work, and my sense of self would all slip. Because divorce wasn’t the only battle. I’ve faced infant loss, heartbreak, special needs parenting, entrepreneurship, and the pressure to keep showing up on social media and in real life. But I don’t do it alone.
My happy ending is still being written. But for now, I’m walking in faith, holding my girls close, and building a life I know God is guiding every step of the way.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Hi! I’m Alyssia Aguilar, a self-taught Latina artist, storyteller, and founder of The Lofty Mom. Which is a creative brand rooted in resilience, motherhood, and faith. Based in Houston, TX, I use my art to tell honest stories that uplift women, amplify Latinx voices, and spark meaningful conversations.
What makes my journey unique is that I began this path while navigating infant loss with my son passing away from sepsis back in 2017, fast forward to single motherhood, and a complete life reset. From sketching late at night at my kitchen table to having my art featured in Times Square and collaborating with brands like the Houston Texans and SHEIN, The Lofty Mom has become more than a name, it’s a movement of healing and creativity.
My work blends fashion, cultural pride, and personal storytelling across print, product design, and live art activations. Right now, I’m focused on building more community through art, whether that’s illustrating custom designs, partnering with organizations to add value to the community through fun art activations, designing custom pieces for brands, or helping clients design their website, branded books and more!
At the heart of everything I do is this belief: that beauty can come from pain, and creativity is a powerful tool for connection and change.
Thanks for sharing that. Would love to go back in time and hear about how your past might have impacted who you are today. What relationship most shaped how you see yourself?
This may sound like a surprising answer, but the people who have hurt me the most in my life have actually played a major role in shaping how I see myself today. You might be thinking, “Wait…what?” But honestly, it was through those very moments of hurt, betrayal, and heartbreak that I found the strength to rise.
Those experiences pushed me into deep self-reflection and forced me to face who I was and more importantly, who I wanted to become. Instead of letting the pain consume me, I used it as fuel. It motivated me to work harder, to prove to myself that I am worthy, capable, and resilient. It helped me rediscover my value, not based on anyone else’s opinion, but rooted in faith, self-love, and purpose.
Every obstacle became a lesson. Every betrayal revealed a boundary I needed to set. And every disappointment opened up a door to something better and something aligned. Through it all, I learned how to stop seeking validation from others and instead, start building a life that felt right for me and my daughters. So no, I don’t resent those who hurt me. In fact, I silently thank them. Because without that pain, I wouldn’t have evolved into the woman I am today.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
Growing up, I didn’t fit society’s standard of “pretty.” I was bullied for my looks and constantly picked on for my smile. My teeth were bucked out, and I spent years in braces trying to “fix” what others said was wrong with me. As a young girl, those words cut deep. I internalized that pain and carried it with me, often feeling unattractive and unsure of my worth. I struggled to see my own beauty not just on the outside, but from within.
Now, as an adult and a mother, I realize just how important it is to build confidence in our children early on. The world will always have opinions, but the voice that matters most is the one inside. My mission as a mom is to make sure my daughters not only know they are beautiful, but more importantly, that they are enough just as they are. I want to validate who they are beyond appearances, to celebrate their creativity, their boldness, their humor, and their intelligence.
Confidence isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being grounded in who you are. I want my girls to stand tall, own their voices, and know that their worth isn’t tied to how they look, but to the light they carry, the kindness they show, and the dreams they dare to chase. Because true beauty begins the moment we believe in ourselves and I’m determined to help them believe it every step of the way.
So a lot of these questions go deep, but if you are open to it, we’ve got a few more questions that we’d love to get your take on. What’s a belief or project you’re committed to, no matter how long it takes?
Every client I work with is more than just a project it’s a full commitment on my part. I don’t just aim to deliver a creative solution; I strive to truly understand the heart of their brand and bring their vision to life in a way that feels meaningful and aligned. I recognize that investing in design is also an emotional investment, and my role is to honor that with care, integrity, and attention to detail.
Many of my contracts are long-term or may extend beyond the original timeline, and that’s okay. I believe in giving grace where it’s needed because I know from personal experience that life happens. As a busy single mom myself, I understand the chaos, the unexpected shifts, and the need for flexibility. That’s why I approach every collaboration with empathy and patience. My clients are never rushed or pressured. Instead, they’re supported every step of the way so we can create something we’re both proud of, without sacrificing quality, vision, or peace of mind.
At the end of the day, my goal is for every client to feel seen, heard, and confident in the creative journey we take together.
Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
I hope when people reflect back on my life, especially my children that they see God in me. We’ve walked through a lot together, and it hasn’t always been easy to be the “bigger person.” But through every challenge, I’ve done my best to lead with grace, faith, and truth.
I hold myself accountable to them, because I know one day they’ll look back and have questions, hard ones. And when that time comes, I want to be able to answer them with honesty, not regret. I want them to know the truth: that God carried us through it all. That I fought to protect their peace, even when mine was shattered. That I stood tall not just for myself, but for them, so they could grow up knowing their strength, their worth, and the power of their voice.
Everything I do is rooted in love and guided by faith, and I pray they carry that with them always and that people will remember my journey.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.loftymom.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theloftymomart/
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theloftymom/
- Twitter: https://x.com/TheLoftyMom
Image Credits
SHEIN
Houston Texans Helmet- Zach Tarrant
