Today we’d like to introduce you to Andreza Oboli.
Hi Andreza, thanks for joining us today. We’d love for you to start by introducing yourself.
Long before I understood much about life, I understood what it meant to work for something.
I grew up in Brazil surrounded by hard work, resilience, generosity, and people who simply figured things out as they went. I was also an incredibly curious child. I wanted to try everything—dancing, singing, cooking, painting, sports, learning languages. I started working when I was 12, and from an early age, I loved learning, being challenged, and discovering what I was capable of.
That curiosity eventually led me into International Business and Affairs and what became a 15-year career. I learned how to negotiate, manage complex projects, work across countries and cultures, and understand people. I also had the opportunity to teach international business, which showed me how much I loved taking something I had learned and using it to help someone else grow.
Then life took me somewhere completely different.
My husband and I moved to Houston through the company we worked for at the time, and we have now been here for 16 years.
I never imagined becoming an immigrant. I had a career, family, friendships, an established reputation, and a strong sense of who I was in Brazil. Moving to another country challenged all of that. I had to rebuild my community, my relationships, my identity, and eventually my career.
Immigration taught me resilience in a very different way. It forced me to become comfortable with being uncomfortable and to understand that sometimes growth requires letting go of the version of yourself you thought you had to be.
And the adjustment never completely ends. I speak three languages, and when I use all three in the same day, my brain kind of collapses. LOL. Sometimes the thought is perfectly clear in my head, but translating not only the words, but the emotion, tone, and intention behind them is an entirely different challenge. So when I communicate exactly what I mean in another language, part of me still feels a little superhuman.
As my husband and I built our family, it became clear that we wanted enough flexibility for both of us to be present for our daughters. Creating that life required me to take risks, explore different versions of myself, face my fears, and give myself permission to change direction when necessary.
Along the way, I became a mother for the second time, nine years after my first child—at 42. And yes, she was planned! 😂 And one of the best decisions of my life. ❤️
That willingness to keep evolving eventually led me to where I am today, and my current career brings together so many pieces of the lives I lived before it.
International business taught me negotiation, contracts, and project management. Teaching taught me how to make complicated things easier to understand. Entrepreneurship taught me ownership and accountability. Motherhood taught me patience, perspective, and what the word “home” really means. And being an immigrant taught me what it feels like to make major life decisions while navigating uncertainty.
At the time, many chapters of my life felt completely unrelated. Today, I realize they weren’t.
Every experience gave me something I would need later. Every version of myself helped build the next one and perhaps that has been one of the greatest lessons of my life: Resilience isn’t about starting over from zero. You never really start over from zero. You carry everything you’ve learned with you—and then you have the courage to keep becoming the person you’re meant to be.
We all face challenges, but looking back would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
No. Definitely not.
And I think for a long time I had a very specific idea of what resilience was supposed to look like. I thought it meant being strong, working harder, solving the problem, pushing through, and somehow figuring everything out.
I am very good at figuring things out.
But one of the biggest lessons of my life has been realizing that resilience is not always about pushing through. Sometimes it is about knowing when to stop, reassess, change direction, ask for help, or admit that something that once worked for you no longer does. That applies to both work and relationships.
There have been many periods in my life when I felt incredibly capable on the outside and very uncertain on the inside.
Moving countries was obviously one of them. I had already built a professional identity and a life in Brazil, and suddenly many of the things that once made me feel established were gone. But that was really just the beginning of a much longer process of learning how to rebuild without losing myself.
Then came motherhood, career changes, entrepreneurship, starting over professionally, and trying to reconcile two parts of myself that sometimes seemed to compete with each other: the woman who is incredibly ambitious and curious about what she can accomplish, and the woman who deeply wants to be present for her family and the people she loves.
That tension has probably been one of my greatest challenges.
I have also had to confront my need for control. I am a planner. I analyze. I anticipate problems. Give me a complicated situation and I will probably create three possible solutions before lunch.
That is a strength in my work.
In life? Not always. 😂
For years, I think part of me believed that if I worked hard enough, planned carefully enough, made the right decisions, and anticipated every possible problem, I could somehow protect myself and the people I love from disappointment.
Life has very patiently—and repeatedly—explained to me that this is not how it works.
There have been opportunities that did not work out, relationships that changed or that I had to let go, decisions I questioned, things I worked very hard for that I later realized I no longer wanted, and moments when there simply wasn’t a perfect answer. Those experiences forced me to learn something I am still practicing today: trusting myself when I don’t know exactly how the story ends.
I used to see changing direction as evidence that perhaps I had made the wrong choice. Now I see it differently. Something can be absolutely right for one chapter of your life and completely wrong for the next. That doesn’t make the first decision a failure. Sometimes it simply means you learned, you changed, or you grew.
I have also learned that being hard on yourself is not the same thing as holding yourself accountable. That distinction took me a long time to understand. I still expect a lot from myself. I probably always will. But I am learning to leave room for being human—for making the best decision I can with the information I have, for getting things wrong sometimes, for changing my mind, and for giving myself the same patience I so naturally give other people.
I also intentionally work to do the things that are good for me, regardless of what other people think. Society can be cruel, and people often have regrets that they project onto you. So I am constantly learning to quiet those voices and keep going—with the help of my therapist, of course. Thank you, Mary. You are wonderful.
Today, when life doesn’t go according to plan, I try not to immediately interpret it as something going wrong. I ask different questions. What is this showing me? What do I know now that I didn’t know before? What is actually within my control? What are my options? And what is the next best decision I can make from here? That shift has changed a lot for me.
The road has absolutely not been smooth. But I am not sure I would want to erase the difficult parts anymore. They taught me that strength isn’t having all the answers. Sometimes it is trusting yourself enough to keep moving when you don’t.
Appreciate you sharing that. What else should we know about what you do?
I’ve been in real estate for several years now, and the more experience I gain, the more convinced it become that, at its core, this business is about people.
Real estate brings together so many things I have loved throughout my professional life: business, strategy, negotiation, numbers, problem-solving, communication, and human connection. It requires you to understand the market and the data, but also to understand the person sitting across from you. And it is definitely not a business where everything goes according to plan. Real estate is not for the faint of heart.
Markets change. Inspections uncover surprises. Financing falls apart. Appraisals come in low. Negotiations become emotional. Sometimes a transaction that looked incredibly simple on Monday becomes a completely different story by Friday. I’ve learned that the true value of experience often becomes most visible in those moments.
When things are straightforward, the process can feel relatively simple. But when things become complicated, my clients need more than information. They need someone who can stay calm, understand what is happening, anticipate risk, interpret the information in front of us, find solutions, negotiate strategically, and help them make decisions without allowing fear or emotion to take over.
That has become even more important as technology—and especially Artificial Intelligence—changes the way consumers access information. I actually find AI incredibly exciting, and I use it myself. It can help us analyze information faster, identify patterns, communicate more efficiently, and become better at what we do. But access to more information does not automatically lead to better decisions.
In fact, I think one of the challenges consumers are beginning to face is the opposite: there is so much information available that knowing what to trust, how to interpret it, what is missing, and how it applies to one specific property, transaction, market, or family becomes increasingly important. AI can give you information. It can help you ask better questions. It can even help you identify possibilities you had not considered. But it does not sit across the table from the other agent. It does not walk through the house with you. It does not know the history of a negotiation, recognize the hesitation in someone’s voice, understand the nuances of a particular seller or buyer, or carry a fiduciary responsibility for the outcome.
That is where I believe experienced professionals will become even more valuable.
Technology should make us better at serving people, not replace the responsibility we have to them. My number-one obligation will always be my fiduciary duty to my clients. I want to combine experience, data, technology, strategy, and good old-fashioned human judgment to help people make smart decisions with confidence. Because the tools will continue to change. People will still need people.
I work primarily in residential real estate, representing buyers and sellers throughout the Houston area, and I have developed a reputation for being very analytical and very straightforward.
I like data. I like understanding the “why” behind a decision. I will absolutely have an opinion, but I also believe my responsibility is not to make the decision for my client. My job is to give them the information, context, strategy, perspective, and sometimes the difficult questions they need to make the best decision for themselves.
I never want someone to buy a house simply because they fell in love with the kitchen, or sell one because they became frustrated after a difficult week on the market. I want them to understand the bigger picture: the numbers, the market, the risks, the opportunities, the alternatives, and how that decision fits into their life.
I’ve learned that good representation begins with listening. Before I can protect someone’s best interests, I need to understand what those interests actually are—not what I assume they should be.
What I am most proud of is the trust I build with my clients. Some transactions end at the closing table. The relationships I value most don’t. Many of my clients come back, refer their friends and family, ask me questions years later, or simply remain part of my life. To me, that is a much greater measure of success than the number of houses I sell.
I think what sets me apart is the combination of analytical thinking, strategic judgment, and genuine human connection. I can sit with spreadsheets, comparables, contracts, inspection reports, market trends, and negotiation strategies all day—and I genuinely enjoy that part of the work. But I never forget that there is a person and a life behind those numbers.
A home is often one of someone’s largest financial assets, but it is also where their family lives, where memories are made, and sometimes where an entirely new chapter begins. At the end of the day, I don’t want my clients to simply buy or sell a house. I want them to understand why they made the decisions they made and walk away feeling confident that those decisions made sense for their lives.
If I can accomplish that—and they know that I genuinely had their best interests at heart—then I’ve done my job well.
What are your plans for the future?
I think my plans for the future are becoming less about chasing the next accomplishment and more about intentionally creating the life I want my future self to live, at least for now.
I have always believed that when you work toward becoming the best version of yourself, so much else begins to fall into place and you attract abundance. Lately, I have been thinking about that almost in reverse—imagining the woman I hope to be 10, 20, or 30 years from now and asking myself: What does she need me to start doing today?
I want her to feel secure. I want her to have choices. I don’t want her decisions to be driven by fear.
Because of that, I have become much more intentional about investing, not only on my personal finances, in building wealth, and creating different sources of security for the future, but with the people I surround myself with. Besides, I spent many years learning how to work hard and earn money. Now I want to become equally thoughtful about what I do with it and how I make it work for the life I want to build.
I am also becoming much more interested in spirituality, personal growth, and understanding myself better. For most of my life, I have been very comfortable pushing myself—setting another goal, solving another problem, taking care of another person, figuring out what needs to happen next. What I haven’t always been as good at is extending that same care and kindness to myself.
So part of this next chapter is learning that too. Learning when to push myself and when to give myself grace. Becoming more intentional about what deserves my energy, who I allow into my life, what I say yes to and, perhaps even more importantly, what I am willing to say no to.
I still want to grow professionally, and I have many plans running alongside that growth. I am still the ambitious woman I have always been, full of ideas and things I want to build. I am still incredibly curious, and I hope I never lose that. But the question I find myself asking more often now is not simply, “What else can I accomplish?” It is, “Who do I want to become?”
Sometimes I imagine myself at the end of my life, looking back at the woman I am today. I want to make decisions she would be proud of. I want her to know that I was brave enough to take chances, disciplined enough to prepare for the future, wise enough to change direction when something no longer served me, and kind enough to enjoy my life while I was living it.
I want to have loved my family well. I want my daughters to remember that I was present. I want to have protected meaningful friendships, traveled, laughed, learned, helped people, and created memories around tables with people I love. I want to have built financial freedom, but I also want to have built a rich life in every sense of the word.
Maybe that is what I am planning for more than anything right now: freedom.
The kind of freedom that comes from knowing yourself, trusting yourself, living according to your values, and no longer measuring your life against someone else’s definition of success.
I don’t know exactly what every part of my future looks like, and surprisingly, I am becoming more comfortable with that.
I just want to be intentional about the person I am becoming along the way, so I can continue to show up better for my family, my friends, my clients, and myself.
And someday, I hope my future self can look back at the woman I am today and simply think:
“Thank you. You took good care of me.”
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.har.com/andreza-oboli/agent_aoboli
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrezaoboli_realtor/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndrezaOboliRealtor/
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreza-oboli-848a34b/
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondtheFrontDoorwithAndreza
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