We recently had the chance to connect with Damilola Akinlotan and have shared our conversation below.
Damilola, really appreciate you sharing your stories and insights with us. The world would have so much more understanding and empathy if we all were a bit more open about our stories and how they have helped shaped our journey and worldview. Let’s jump in with a fun one: What is a normal day like for you right now?
Waking up early to prepare essentials for my daughter before I clock in. I’m a new mommy and we’re on an adventure.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
She’s a free spirited human being. The life of the party, an outgoing soul down to explore. She is Lepashandy, Asides from doing music, I am working on my Event business, Partywithshandy, which specializes in parties, promotional marketing, numerous event services and more. I love to help people grow so why not turn it into a profitable thing.
Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. What breaks the bonds between people—and what restores them?
The bonds between people are held by trust, respect, and just being yourself. The relationship weakens when those foundations are broken. I honestly don’t believe a bond can be restored. Nothing will ever be the same.
Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
Being pregnant was the hardest thing I’ve dealt with. The situation broke me completely, It affected my health and mindset, it seemed like life was over for me, but I overcame the heartache. Many people hide things behind a smile, you never know until you ask. I’m grateful that I overcame and saw the light. Good things come to those who wait.
Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
Being authentically you! If it’s one thing I stress it’s being real! Everybody will scream “hey friend” , “that’s family”, “that’s my bro”, but will trash those same people horribly.
Love yourself
Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. When do you feel most at peace?
When I’m with my daughter. Just watching her do her thing makes me smile.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/partywithshandy?igsh=MXJsc2pnYnloZ3F2bA==
- Other: https://open.spotify.com/artist/303aLFigC7UGi1EiW10yQS?si=_WT8PRc2Ts-xKt3swBxqvw







Image Credits
Nika Esono is my personal photographer I love her!! Book her asap!
